Whales, Boats, and Vulnerability with Tyler Merritt
“I’m aware that it’s not every day that most people see a six foot two black man with dreadlocks crying in real life. I have never regretted a single moment in my life of being transparent about how I feel emotionally with somebody. Vulnerability has never kicked back at me in a negative way.”
Episode 74
Recorded live from the Oregon coast on the final day of MeCamp, this special two-part conversation between Jen and her partner Tyler Merritt is the perfect blend of hilarity, heart, and honesty.
In Part 1, Jen and Tyler share stories from their MeCamp adventures — including a whale-watching excursion that got a little too close for comfort, and a near-death boat ride they’ll never forget. They also reflect on the power of personal storytelling, how vulnerability has shown up in their lives and work, and why telling the truth (even when it’s awkward) can be both healing and hilarious.
Discussing the impact of Tyler’s viral video “Before You Call the Cops” to Jen’s reflections on her upcoming book “Awake,” this conversation reveals the transformative potential of embracing vulnerability. Tune in to discover how opening up about our most personal stories can not only heal us but also inspire others to see themselves in our narratives.
- Tyler talks about the most awkward moment he’s ever had because he opted to be vulnerable and honest instead of protecting his pride
- He and Jen discuss the hardest truths they’ve ever had to tell themselves
- And Tyler goes back into the annals to reveal his most embarrassing moment as a performer on stage
Resources Mentioned in This Episode:
Awake: A Memoir by Jen Hatmaker
Jen shares the first line from Awake
This Changes Everything: A Surprisingly Funny Story About Race, Cancer, Faith, and Other Things We Don’t Talk About by Tyler Merritt
Before You Call The Cops by The Tyler Merritt Project
I Take My Coffee Black: Reflections on Tupac, Musical Theater, Faith, and Being Black in America by Tyler Merritt
Luna Sea Fish House in Yachats, Oregon
Buy My Own Drinks by Runaway June
A Door Made for Me by Tyler Merritt
A Long December by Counting Crows
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